EXCEPT I HAVE THE MOST AWESOMES WICKEDEST CAMERA EVER NOW!!
Still like, blown away by that.
I never ever wouldve even dared of asking for a camera so awesome.
I can't wait to take it out on the trek.
It takes batteries, so all I have to do is pack em up and go.
David is sweet.
I feel bad for him because he has to suffer with my disillusions.
I read in a science article the difference between new and old couples who say they're in love; in new couples, not only is the love region of the brain going hey-wire, but so is the anxiety and panic region. However, in the old couples ,who were still giddy like high-school sweet hearts, the region of the brain known for love was also crazy-electric, so was the calm and mellow side of the brain.
In conclusion, over time, panic and anxiety become calm and mellow.
I think, we reached the older stage. And suddenly, I wasn't as hyped up as I use to be...
Which left me to questioning.. well, pretty much everything that including our relationship.
So here we are in this stage of sudden mellow, and on top of that, the only time we spend together is with my whole family ( and I mean whole), non-stop, every day of the week.
So at this point.. I feel like an old married couple who's way to comfortable- I feel like I don't have a boyfriend but a family friend ( 'Cuz I was in that new " mellow" stage. And I hadn't had time to adjust yet), and the only intimacy Im getting from David is comming with a "Hurry up, they're probably watching" attitude. It all kinda hurt.
...So naturally I freaked out.
I wanted a boyfriend.
This new foreign relationship was freaking me out.
I had no one-on-one time with him.(And it felt like an eternity)
But, I wasn't going to cross that line of stupidity and break up with him, not yet..
Until he basically made me realize that we WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL, and being "comfortable" was a bad, very bad idea.
I gotttt pisssed.
And I began to think, well, hell, if this is the new stage "the older" stage, I wasn't going to take it with my head down, especially if it made me look like a fool and lead to a broken heart in the end anyway.
So I screwed things up.
I didn't realize that there were multiple, and I mean MULTIPLE, factors in this tiresome week, that I hadn't accounted for.
I had forgotten, that the week was very chaotic indeed.
Don't misunderstand, the week was far from terrible.
It was wonderful in fact.
David and my family and I, we all enjoyed each other.
We went bowling, shopping, decorating, cookie baking,cranium gaming, and lottttts more.
I just felt like I only had the best friend side of him, and not the boy friend side.
Thank God he's not stupid though.
(like me.)
He was a tad bit mean-making, but he is the reason I'm happy, ever.
And I'm usually the meaner one in the relationship.I'm a horrible girlfriend ( Obviously!)
He, is lucky he texted me at 11:00pm. I'm glad I replied.
I knew to avoid talking talking with him if I was going to break up with him, it would just mess with the will power,.... but I'm glad I did.
He's worth everything.
He's a million times more worthy then I am.
He's my sweet-heart.
And he had some good points.
Apparently, the extra space was marked by some serious serious misscommunication.. on mainly my part. It was nice to know that we were both, still,in the same boat.
I still love him. Im trying to recover from my detachment torwards him (patience, please.), and trying not to resent him for blowing off my moms wedding, but I think what I need is time with JUST him, for ONCE!
Anyway.
Allens here, he's been fun. :) We've kept the movie together tradition strong and Im vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeerrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
happy that he's finally retired..... he's not so scary lol.
He thinks Montanas a cool idea, he would prefer Florida, but , you know.
Cuz of the snow up there and everything.
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